Follow along as photographers Phyllis Graber Jensen and Theophil Syslo, and writers Doug Hubley and Emily McConville, share sights and stories from the Class of 2021’s arrival on Aug. 28.

While this time-stamp presentation is a span of just 12 hours, Opening Day begins the experience of a lifetime for students and families.

7:34 a.m.

It’s always a goal that the incoming class should encounter a lint-free Student Affairs staff, so Assistant Dean of Residence Life and Health Education Molly Newton rolls a lint remover over a jacket sleeve belonging to Director of Student Life Blake Reilly.

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Along with student Orientation leaders, they’re awaiting arrivals to Chu and Kalperis halls, on Campus Avenue.

Meanwhile, about 200 yards away, first-year students are doing what they need to do first: reporting to the Central Avenue entrance of Commons for their official check-in.

They’re arriving at the rate of about one per minute, estimates Jennifer Foley, an Opening Day volunteer whose day job is as associate vice president for college advancement.

With a decisive handshake and 鈥淲elcome to 乐播传媒,鈥 Foley greets the first-years and makes sure they know the drill once they get inside Commons.

An important aspect to her job, Foley notes, is ensuring that the new students check in by themselves 鈥 and feel comfortable doing it 鈥 as their parents are directed toward their students鈥 residences.

鈥淚t鈥檚 the first time kids are asked to do something on their own鈥 at 乐播传媒, she says.


7:44 a.m.

Early arrivers Barbara and Kerwin Charles, parents of Michael Charles 鈥21 of Valley Stream, N.Y., get help from Michael Hogue 鈥20 of Chicago and Brielle Antonelli 鈥18 of Warwick, N.Y., as they move their son’s gear into Kalperis Hall.

Hogue and Antonelli represent some of the variety of student leaders who pitch in on Opening Day. Hogue will lead a group of first-years on an outdoor trip to Mount Blue in two days, while Antonelli will assist new students throughout the next several days as an Orientation Week Leader, or OWL.

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Phyllis Graber Jensen/乐播传媒 College


7:52 a.m.

Hundreds of Bobcats help the new students move in, including college staff members (i.e., the Welcome Crew) and students like this group posing on Campus Avenue: Orientation Week Leaders (OWLs), AESOP outdoor trip leaders, and student members of the Residence Life staff.

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Phyllis Graber Jensen/乐播传媒 College


8:15 a.m.

As vehicles pull up to residences, student Orientation leaders descend like a NASCAR pit crew to begin the unpacking.

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Phyllis Graber Jensen/乐播传媒 College


8:15 a.m.

Back at Commons, students approach the four check-in tables in ones and twos. Conferences and Campus Events staff are giving the first-years their room keys, student IDs on lanyards, and stainless steel PRCs or Personal Reusable Containers 鈥 that is, sustainable beverage cups.

鈥淭here鈥檚 no food without it.鈥

Kelly Perreault of Campus Events has her spiel down pat: Don鈥檛 lose the ID, she warns the students good-naturedly. They’ll need it for building access, library privileges, and board plan: 鈥淭here鈥檚 no food without it.鈥 She also explains the PRC program and reminds the students to hand-wash the mugs before drinking from them.

Brenda Pelletier, conferences and campus events manager, estimates that about 150 students have checked in so far, including one right at the crack of 7 a.m.


8:23 a.m.

Wearing a Welcome Crew T-shirt, President Clayton Spencer greets Erin Bucki ’21 of Saint Paul, Minn., outside of Commons.

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Theophil Syslo/乐播传媒 College

Security staff, wearing bright fluorescent visibility vests, direct traffic. Various passersby聽 鈥 pedestrians walking dogs or heading to Merrill Gym, commuters in their cars, and food-laden tractor-trailers pulling into the lot between the dining hall and Alumni Gym 鈥 add texture to the scene.


8:42 a.m.

Moving over to Chu and Kalperis halls, President Spencer greets the family of Layla Dozier 鈥21 of the Bronx, with a friendly admonishment about father Andre Dozier’s Yankee gear. At left is Layla’s brother, Andre Jr., and her mother, Doris.

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Phyllis Graber Jensen/乐播传媒 College

The next family to arrive at Chu and Kalperis is that of Solaine Carter 鈥21 of Tucson, Ariz.

鈥淵ou guys are amazing,鈥 says mom Beth Mitchneck, as students in garnet shirts quickly empty the minivan, then cart boxes, bags, and a framed photo of Solaine鈥檚 dog to the second floor of Kalperis.

It鈥檚 a surprisingly efficient end to a long drive. The family left Tucson on Aug. 15 and wound their way across the country, visiting friends, meeting Solaine鈥檚 roommate in Nashville, and dropping Solaine鈥檚 older sister off at graduate school.

Solaine, fresh from her check-in at Commons, arrives at the dorm. The college prepared her well for Opening Day, she says. 鈥淚鈥檒l be like, ‘Mom! I don鈥檛 know what I鈥檓 supposed to do for X!’ And then, two seconds later, I get an email about X.鈥

She鈥檚 looking forward to the opportunities Orientation affords her. 鈥淚鈥檓 really excited to meet new people, learn about myself,鈥 she says, then heads inside to see her room.


8:46 a.m.

At Kalperis Hall, President Spencer joins the effort to help first-years move in.

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Phyllis Graber Jensen/乐播传媒 College


8:47 a.m.

Settling in, Jaimin Keliihoomalu ’21 of Kapolei, Hawaii, relaxes with his guitar in his room in the 280 College Street residence.

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Theophil Syslo/乐播传媒 College


8:50 a.m.

Jake Bart 鈥21 of New York City felt the early morning chill, but describes his introduction to 乐播传媒 overall as 鈥渘ice.鈥 His mood is 鈥渕ostly excitement but a little nervous,鈥 largely about beginning his first prolonged stay away from home. In that vein, he notes, 鈥淢om鈥檚 a little emotional, but Dad鈥檚 doing pretty well.鈥

It鈥檚 too early to think about a major. 鈥淚鈥檒l try a lot of things and see where that leads me,鈥 Jake says. And why 乐播传媒? 鈥淢ostly the vibe. Everyone鈥檚 very nice. I saw myself here.鈥


8:55 a.m.

At 280 College Street, Jim Guzelian, the college’s environmental health and safety specialist, helps Hannah Lucas ’21 of New York City place risers under her bed as her mother, Elizabeth Lucas, looks on.

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Theophil Syslo/乐播传媒 College


9 a.m.

At Kalperis, Sommer Glasgow 鈥21 of Salt Lake City unloads her family鈥檚 car with the help of student leaders, hauls everything upstairs, and starts to unpack, placing a Keurig in a prominent place.

A few minutes later, two Junior Advisors introduce themselves. James MacDonald 鈥20 of Quincy, Mass., and Kelly McDonald ’19 of Whately, Mass., (not siblings, they鈥檙e quick to say) welcome her to the dorm and to 乐播传媒.

As JAs who live amidst a group of new students known as a First-Year Center, their job throughout the year is to mentor the new students, create activities for them, and uphold community standards.

But their biggest goal today, MacDonald and McDonald say, is to make the students feel welcome. They鈥檙e greeting 鈥 and reassuring 鈥 families, answering questions, and helping first-years get settled.

鈥淚 hope they get comfortable with campus so they鈥檙e not intimidated or hesitant to know where they鈥檙e going and try new things,鈥 MacDonald says.


9:17 a.m.

In Kalperis Hall, Carter Ros 鈥21 of Hailey, Idaho, takes direction from his mother, Margo, in setting up his room. He’s an aspiring Nordic skier.

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Phyllis Graber Jensen/乐播传媒 College

At Wentworth Adams Hall, the balloons are swaying, 鈥淎dams Hall鈥 posters displaying, music playing 鈥 the Bee Gees鈥 鈥淪taying Alive.鈥 It鈥檚 all the handiwork of the student residence life staff, who are here in enthusiastic evidence.

Nevo Polonsky, coordinator of campus life and residential programming for Student Affairs, explains that Junior Advisors are typically in touch with the first-years in their charge during the summer, so for the newbies, 鈥渋t鈥檚 much more exciting to put a face with a name.鈥

He has seen a quick integration of new students into the fold, he adds, because there鈥檚 such a diversity of interests among both the new and established students. Because common interests are easy to find, 鈥渁 lot of incoming students have already gotten connected to someone,鈥 he explains.


9:34 a.m.

By mid-morning on Alumni Walk, it’s a hub of activity as students move in at Parker Hall, the second-oldest 乐播传媒 building, built in 1857.

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Theophil Syslo/乐播传媒 College

Ruth Veleta and her husband are delivering Tom Hennessey 鈥21 of Middletown, Conn., to his digs in Parker Hall. It鈥檚 not her first kid-to-college rodeo 鈥 her step-daughters are college graduates 鈥 but it鈥檚 still kind of a wrench. 鈥淲e鈥檙e trying to stay future-oriented and hold the tears till the end of the day,鈥 she laughs.


9:36 a.m.

Abra Kaplan ’21 of Oak Park, Ill., stretches to pin a 乐播传媒 College banner on the wall of her Rand Hall room with the help of her father, Gary Kaplan.

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Theophil Syslo/乐播传媒 College


9:37 a.m.

Moms and daughters meet and greet in Kalperis Hall. From left, Elizabeth Fairman 鈥21 of Lathurp Village, Mich., her mother, Sarah Fairman, roommate Joselyn Jaramillo 鈥21 of Newark, N.J., and her mother, Nelly Jaramillo.

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Phyllis Graber Jensen/乐播传媒 College

Jaramillo has been on campus for the past week as a Bobcat First! participant. The night before, she invited Fairman to check out their room on the second floor of Kalperis.

Fairman first heard about 乐播传媒 from her college counselor, whose son is an alumnus. When she took a tour and stayed overnight, she was struck by the campus鈥 beauty and sense of community.

鈥淭hey were so nice and so welcoming, and I loved the emphasis on the outdoors as well,鈥 she says.

The move-in, and everything up to it, leaves Fairman鈥檚 mother pleased. She knows 乐播传媒 will help Elizabeth figure out what she wants to do, while being in the outdoors and making friends.

鈥淭he one thing that we discovered in our searches is that we were looking for her to find her people,鈥 says Sarah Fairman. 鈥淲e think she found it here.鈥


10:06 a.m.

Nancy Crate, mother of Will Crate 鈥21 of South Hamilton, Mass., pays for a wrap and bandana for Tucker, the family’s Jack Russell terrier, who jumps for joy.

Staffing the cash register are College Store director Gail St. Pierre, and her daughter, Abrielle, 11.

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Phyllis Graber Jensen/乐播传媒 College


10:14 a.m.

The Resource Fair in Perry Atrium is an exposition of more than a dozen 乐播传媒 offices and services ranging from the 乐播传媒 Career Development Center to the Sustainability Office.

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Theophil Syslo/乐播传媒 College

We overhear Multifaith Chaplain Brittany Longsdorf and the mother of a new student discussing the eight banners representing world faith traditions in the Peter J. Gomes Chapel.

One of the banners, a tree, represents the Sikh religion, Longsdorf explains, and the planet Earth stands for humanist or pagan traditions. 鈥淪o there are quite a few pagans, then?鈥 the woman asks. 鈥淭here鈥檚 not an official group, but there鈥檚 significant interest,鈥 Longsdorf replies.


10:17 a.m.

Eliza Fischer 鈥21 of Chicago gets settled in Kalperis Hall.

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Phyllis Graber Jensen/乐播传媒 College

Out of sheer excitement, she woke up at 6:30 this morning. Part of a sizable 乐播传媒 contingent staying at the Hampton Inn in downtown Lewiston, Fischer and her family all felt torqued up by the momentous day ahead, but were able to settle down some over coffee and bagels at Forage, a wood-fired bakery and market on Lisbon Street.

Fischer, whose academic interests include international politics or environmental studies, visited a lot of schools, but was sold by 鈥渉ow nice and amazing the people are at 乐播传媒.鈥 She鈥檚 nervous to be away from home for the first time, but more excited.


10:30 a.m.

Prarthana Mocherla ’21 of Old Tappan, N.J., and her parents, Sunita Abraham and Pavan Mocherla, talk with Paul Menice, interim director of security and campus safety, at the Resource Fair in Perry Atrium.

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Theophil Syslo/乐播传媒 College

鈥淢y husband and I were just talking about how well things are going,鈥 says Abraham, who’s taking a break while Prarthana scopes out the fair.

Earlier, she recalls, 鈥渁 group of wonderfully enthusiastic people grabbed her stuff and whisked it up to the fourth floor鈥 of her daughter’s dorm.

Prarthana is an only child: 鈥淚 have been weepy and teary for the last four or five days,鈥 says Abraham. 鈥淚 think she鈥檚 just waiting until 5 o鈥檆lock, when we leave.鈥 Joining the conversation, Prarthana says, 鈥淚鈥檓 fine. I think it鈥檒l hit after they leave.鈥

Another parent encountered at the Resource Fair, John Shaw says that “it’s hard to believe how quickly they grow up,鈥 referring to his son, Keaton Shaw 鈥21 of Middleton, Wisc.

The elder Shaw explains how, back in the day, he and his wife were part of a cohort of young couples who all moved into their neighborhood in Middleton around the same time. Now those couples are becoming empty nesters, and the next round of young families is coming in. When your kids are little, Shaw says, 鈥渃herish it. It goes too fast.鈥


10:30 a.m.

During a lull in the pulling up of cars and the getting out of boxes and the jostling for coveted elevators, the group of orientation leaders at Chu Hall starts an impromptu dance party to 鈥淓ye of the Tiger.鈥

Grace Jurkovich 鈥18 of St. Paul, Minn., an OWL, has a high opinion of her task: 鈥淲e have the best job on campus right now, which is really to facilitate the fun.鈥

Today, the fun includes dinner in Commons and a hike up Mount David. Later this week, Jurkovich will lead a restaurant tour of Lewiston.

鈥淎ll the first-years on campus are equalized on the same nervous level.”

Amelia Wilhelm 鈥18 of Charlotte, N.C., a residence coordinator in Hopkins House who was Jurkovich鈥檚 first-year roommate, says their goal is to get new students out of their dorms and into the wider 乐播传媒 community.

鈥淎ll the first-years on campus are equalized on the same nervous level, so providing the programs to put all those people together and get them interacting in whatever way they want to be interacting 鈥 I think it鈥檚 a great system,鈥 Wilhelm says.

Both Jurkovich and Wilhelm are impressed by today鈥檚 weather, the first-years鈥 room-decorating skills, and the welcome messages on the Chu Hall blackboards.

鈥淭his is a weird adult thing to say, but I鈥檓 so excited to move my children into college, because what will dorms look like in, like, 20 years?鈥 Wilhelm says.


10:57 a.m.

At the campus-facing entrance to Commons, one sees large green inflatable sofas and hears Cyndi Lauper singing 鈥淕irls Just Want to Have Fun.鈥 And one must simply ask why.

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Theophil Syslo/乐播传媒 College

It鈥檚 the OWL Hub: A one-stop offering from the Orientation Week Leaders, a student team that has put together amusements and recreational activities to help first-years ease stress and fill vacant moments during Orientation. (OWLs T-shirt slogan: 鈥淥WL be there for you.鈥)

The Hub is the brainchild of OWL Allison Berman 鈥18 of Philadelphia. Last year, she says, 鈥渁 lot of students wanted a place to hang out, ask questions, find things to do.鈥 Hence the Hub, with its snacks, cornhole boards and other games, the sofas (which proved very popular, especially with certain tapped-out dads), and, of course, Cyndi. It鈥檚 not just girls who want to have fun.


12:45 p.m.

Appetites whetted by move-in work, hungry queues form for the Family and New Student Barbecue.

On the menu: fresh fruit salad, brussels sprout panzanella salad, and cole slaw; for sandwiches, pulled chicken, pulled pork, and chipotle barbecued tofu with grilled vegetables; for sides, maple brown sugar baked beans, roasted corn, and cheesy corn bread; and for dessert, whoopie pies in blueberry and vanilla.

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Phyllis Graber Jensen/乐播传媒 College


12:46 p.m.

Zhao Li 鈥21 of Guangzhou, China, and Rio Fujii 鈥21 of Tokyo have staked out a spot under a tree. Each flew 15-plus hours from their countries to Boston, then took buses to Portland, where Associate Dean of Students for International Student Programs James Reese picked them up. They met in Commons this morning, bonding over an interest in politics.

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Phyllis Graber Jensen/乐播传媒 College

Li, who knew she wanted to attend a liberal arts college, heard of 乐播传媒 through a college counselor, and applied early decision.

鈥淚 find that it is academically strong and I value that in this school,鈥 she said.

Accustomed to the high-rises of her home city, Li liked the shortness of 乐播传媒鈥 buildings. Fujii, here for one year on the Hirasawa exchange program, was struck by the openness of the campus 鈥 her home university in Japan is closed to anyone without an ID.

Fujii said she was excited for the rest of the student body to arrive.

鈥淚 love campus,鈥 she said. 鈥淚 love people, so everything is good, but the thing is, I’ve only met international students, so I really hope that spending one year here, I鈥檒l find local people, American students to get along with.鈥

A ways away, Gift Kiti 鈥18 of Nairobi, Kenya, understands the new students鈥 nervousness. As a JA in Kalperis, she tries to make move-in as smooth as possible, welcoming the students to 乐播传媒 and directing them to the resource fair and Wal Mart as needed.

鈥淚 hope they are open to each other and make potential friends, and they make use of the opportunities being offered right now to know more about 乐播传媒,鈥 she says. 鈥淏ut not to be too hard on themselves 鈥 just to have fun.鈥

Across the Library Quad, Will Jaekle 鈥21 of Wilson, Wyo., and his parents, Laurie and Don, enjoy their lunch on a grassy slope. By the time he finished checking in at Commons, the Orientation crew already carried his things to the hall outside his room in Rand Hall.

鈥淭hey were really fast. I saw my dad leaving, and I thought they just asked him to go find a parking spot, and I鈥檇 have to carry it,鈥 he said.

How is the family feeling at this point? 鈥淕ood,鈥 says Laurie. 鈥淕ood,鈥 says Don.

鈥淣ervous,鈥 says Will.


1:01 p.m.

Posing for an after-lunch portrait at the Class of 1910 Gate are Adrian Azari 鈥21 of Poughkeepsie, N.Y., his father, Hamid, and mother, Christa.

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Phyllis Graber Jensen/乐播传媒 College


1:22 p.m.

Director of Athletics Jason Fein snaps a selfie with the Cote family of Wilton, Conn., after his welcoming remarks to student athletes and their families at the Clifton Daggett Gray Athletic Building. Jackson Cote ’21 (center) hopes to row for 乐播传媒.

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Theophil Syslo/乐播传媒 College

A native of Brooklyn, N.Y., Fein is a 乐播传媒 newcomer, too, arriving from Drew University on July 1. “We’re going through the first year together,” he tells the newest Bobcats. “We’ll be there together.”

Fein’s welcome focuses on an overview of the Bobcat athletic program. “We want the best possible experience for every participant, we want excellence in NESCAC and at the national level, and we want to build community.”

Still, some of Fein and his leadership team’s messages transcended sports, including the importance of students taking responsibility for communicating with their professors and coaches.

Students, says Tommy Verdell, assistant athletic director for compliance, should get in the habit of face-to-face communication with professors and coaches and “get out of the habit of relying on mom or dad to solve your problems. That’s not going to flow here at the college level.”

“We always prefer that communication come from the students because we try, as much as possible to treat them as adults.”

Later in the presentation, Fein returns to that theme. “I ask the parents, before you pick up the phone to call a coach, a dean, an AD, or assistant AD, you check in with your student to see if they have made contact. We always prefer that communication come from the students because we try, as much as possible to treat them as adults.”

That’s not to say that parents should be out of the loop, says presenter Susan Harriman, assistant director of athletics.

In fact, as she tells the students in the audience, now is the time to up your texting game. “Part of how family members support each other comes from communicating. So, teach your family members how to text. And then you need to send them texts. Otherwise they call us and say they haven’t heard from you in 24 hours!”

That’s the takeaways says Fein as he concludes the greeting. “Text your mom and tell her what’s going on. She worries.”


1:26 p.m.

After a busy morning of moving in, Sarah Abbott 鈥21 of Bethlehem, N.H., and her father, Ken Abbott, take a few minutes to chill in inflatable chairs outside of Commons, courtesy of the OWL Hub.

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Phyllis Graber Jensen/乐播传媒 College


1:41 p.m.

Miles Lamberson ’19 of Hinesburg, Vt., gives two thumbs up after fitting Noah Loughlin ’21 of Mililani, Hawaii, with a backpack during the AESOP equipment check-out at Chase Hall.聽Loughlin will be participating in the Franconia trip.

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Theophil/Sylso


2:16 p.m.

If parents wonder how their student will find work that gives them meaning in life, find the answer during a presentation on Purposeful Work by Rebecca Fraser-Thill, lecturer in psychology and director of faculty engagement and outreach for the college’s Purposeful Work program.

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Phyllis Graber Jensen/乐播传媒 College

In the Olin Concert Hall, Fraser-Thill explains how Purposeful Work programming guides students as they explore and then define their interests and abilities, with the ultimate goal of finding work that affords a sense of purpose.

鈥淲e are encouraging our students to feel purposeful in the classroom, on the athletic fields, in the community 鈥 in all of their endeavors throughout the academic year and into the summer and beyond,鈥 she says.

The Class of 2021 is the first cohort to find Purposeful Work programming fully in place at 乐播传媒. They’ll have a four-year experience of funded internships, courses infused with real-world applications, practioner-taught Short Term courses, and the ever-popular How to Adult series.

鈥淚t鈥檚 the perfect time to be here and perfect time to capitalize on everything we have to offer,鈥 she says.


3:15 p.m.

Tiffany Cervantes 鈥21 of New Haven, Conn., and Erick Gredonia 鈥21 of North Hollywood, Calif., search the aisles of the Walmart across the river in Auburn 鈥 he for shampoo (success), she for a cactus for her room (nope: the store’s plants had withered away, according to the store associate staffing the section).

The dorms are, of course, hubs of 乐播传媒 activity on Opening Day, but so is the Walmart. Throughout the day, cars with license plates from around the country stream in and out as families pick up what they need.

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Phyllis Graber Jensen/乐播传媒 College

The Opening Day schedule includes a van shuttle to Walmart for those without their own transportation. After arriving, the students scatter into the store, and Mamta Saraogi 鈥21 of Kolkata, India, locates the flatware she wants for her room.

First-years are not the only 乐播传媒 students doing last-minute shopping. A few aisles over, a group of student AESOP outdoor trip leaders look for clothing, props, and art supplies. They鈥檙e going skating at the Rollodrome tonight, and each pair has to come in coordinated costumes. Katrina Mu帽oz 鈥18 and Riley Ewing 鈥18, both of Bedford, N.H., are going as a firefighter and a dalmatian.

Ewing, beaming, rounds a corner to find Mu帽oz. 鈥淥ur hats make noise!鈥 he declares, holding up a pair of beeping and flashing fire hats.


4:26 p.m.

A parent dabs her eyes during President Spencer’s welcome on the Historic Quad in front of Coram Library.

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Theophil Syslo/乐播传媒 College

In her remarks, Spencer spoke as a mother, recalling the day she helped her son, Will, move in at New York University, and the tears that she shed that day.

“Granting the variability of life with a teenager…I was saying goodbye to a person who had been a constant in my life and in the life of our family for 18 solid years. The feeling was inescapable that the project of raising this child was certainly not finished聽鈥 Lord knows!聽鈥 but somehow the terms of the undertaking had just changed irrevocably.”

But, she added, “most of all, I think, my tears were the product of that X-ray vision that is our special burden as parents.”

That special vision, she said, “causes us to look at our accomplished, poised, and loving children and see straight through to the fears and frailties that we know are there, and that we know still have the power to cause pain and sorrow and hurt to these creatures we love beyond all reason.”


4:44 p.m.

Starkia Benbow of Boston comforts her 13-year-old daughter Takiyah Walker during Spencer’s welcome.

Walker was sad that her older sister, Tiauna Walker ’21 of Millbury, Mass., was moving away from home. “They are best friends,” says Benbow.

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4:49 p.m.

Dylan Simon 鈥21 of San Francisco receives a heartfelt hug from her father, Beau Simon, as the day concludes on the Historic Quad.

Her mother, Daphne Stannard, says, 鈥淚t鈥檚 always been a parental task to kick the bird out of the nest. It鈥檚 really hard to do this, but we are really proud. We know she鈥檚 going to have a great four years here.鈥

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Phyllis Graber Jensen/乐播传媒 College


5:04 p.m.

Following the president’s welcome, Ben Klafter ’21 of New York, N.Y., hugs his mother, Nancy Kestenbaum, during the Farewell Reception and Family Goodbye, held on the Library Terrace.

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Theophil Syslo/乐播传媒 College


5:11 p.m

Jason Seeger ’21 of Belmont, Mass., embraces his mother Kim Seeger during the Farewell Reception and Family Goodbye in the Library Terrace.

Thephil Syslo/乐播传媒 College

Thephil Syslo/乐播传媒 College


7:20 p.m.

And then it was almost over. Atop Mount David, members of the Class of 2021 gather to watch their first sunset as 乐播传媒 students. But really, it’s just beginning.

Theophil Syslo/乐播传媒 College

Theophil Syslo/乐播传媒 College